Rabbi Yaakov Fisch shares some of his views on the very important and not so important issues in life.
Friday, April 4, 2025
What Is Our Toil?
A wedding guest was asked to speak at the special occasion. He apparently had no compunction about going on for too long as his remarks stretched to longer than an hour. Most of the guests had left at the 90-minute mark of his speech as they had enough. At the two-hour mark, the parents of the groom and bride decided they had enough as well and left the hall. At the three-hour mark, the bride said to the groom," This is the happiest day of our lives, and we don't want to let the speaker hijack our wedding." They slowly headed for the exit. After three and a half hours, the speaker finally concluded his speech and opened his eyes to find an empty wedding hall. He did see his friend Chaim Yankel at the other end of the ballroom. He inquired as to where all the guests had gone. Chaim Yankel responded, "Are you meshuga? You can't speak for four hours and expect people to stay for it." The speaker then asked Chaim Yankel why he remained when everyone else had left. Chaim Yankel responded," I am still here because I am the next speaker!"
I am thinking of this old kibitz as this week, history was made in the United States Senate regarding the longest-ever speech. Cory Booker, the Senator from New Jersey, gave the sermon of his career that lasted 25 hours and 5 minutes, surpassing former Sen. Strom Thurmond (S.C.), who held the previous record as he spoke for 24 hours and 18 minutes. I understand that Booker did not eat, drink, or have any bathroom breaks during this marathon speech. I read an article that quoted Booker saying that he intentionally dehydrated himself so he would not require any bathroom breaks.
I was curious as to why the esteemed Senator would climb the Mt. Everest of speeches. The longest speech ever was a reaction to the Trump Administration's policy. Some call this an amazing feat, while others call it a pathetic stunt. While I am not in the practice of providing political analysis, the longest speech ever is noteworthy.
For whatever reason, Senator Booker felt this was something worth investing an extraordinary amount of effort and energy. We all invest much of our effort and energy into various endeavors. This investment takes a toll on us, and sometimes, we need to ask ourselves what we are sacrificing so much of our well-being for. The Talmud in Sanhedrin quotes the verse from Job, אדם לעמל יולד. Translation: Man is created for toil. The Talmud elaborates in its analysis. Everyone was created for toil, but the person who chooses to toil with the Torah is fortunate. In other words, no one on this earth has immunity from stress or everyday pressures. Some fantasize that if they only abandoned the Torah and tradition, their lives would be much easier and less stressful. However, we know that EVERYONE has to endure stress and pressure in one way or another. It's just a question of what arena we want to put our effort or energy into. Fortunate is the person who chooses to toil and receives his dosage of stress from the areas of engaged Jewish life. Others choose to expend their energy and effort into delivering a 25-hour speech or other dubious endeavors. It's up to us how we toil. Let's choose wisely.
Have a Peaceful Shabbos,
Rabbi Yaakov Fisch
Friday, March 28, 2025
No Words
Pain. Anger. Grief. Sadness. Rage. Helpless. There are not enough or adequate words in the English language (or any other language) to communicate the feelings of much of the Jewish World in the last few days. With over 500 days since the hostages were abducted, we now got word that Shiri Bibas, along with two toddler sons, Kfir and Ariel, had been killed, and their bodies were returned in coffins to Israel. To make matters worse, Hamas conducted a sickening ceremony filled with ugly propaganda in handing their bodies to Israel. If anyone had any doubts about the death cult and sheer evil that Hamas represents, this should put it to rest.
There are so many layers to this development and awful tragedy. From security, anti-terrorism, geopolitical intelligence angles, and more. There is also the spiritual dimension. There have been countless tears and prayers shed for the welfare of the hostages in general and the Bibas children in particular. Witnessing the Israeli babies being paraded in coffins was too sickening to bear. A fair question can be asked is what about all the heartfelt prayers? Were they all for naught? As a community of faith, we continue to struggle during these painful times with more questions than answers.
In last week's Parsha, the Torah records arguably the greatest moment in the history of the world, the transmission of the Torah from G-d to the Jewish People. There is a bizarre statement recorded in the prelude to the big moment. The Torah states, “וַיֹּאמֶר הֹ' אֶל־מֹשֶׁה הִנֵּה אָנֹכִי .בָּא אֵלֶיךָ בְּעַב הֶעָנָן Translation: And G-d said to Moses, “I will come to you in a thick cloud, in order that the people may hear when I speak with you.” Why is it necessary to get a weather report in that it was cloudy when G-d spoke to Moshe? I would imagine everyone would prefer a clear blue sky rather than a cloudy day feel from London, but why is this remotely consequential?
The Rabbis teach us that the notion of G-d appearing in a thick cloud has little to do with the weather but rather has to do with our ability to see the Hand of G-d during difficult times. The reality of Hester Panim, or the Concealed Face of G-d, is a bitter reality during certain periods in our lives. The challenge of attempting to see or feel the presence of G-d during a tragic time is real, but that doesn't mean He is not there for us. That is precisely the message of His appearing in a thick cloud. Even when there are storm clouds in our midst, G-d tells us He is there no matter the circumstances. As the Psalmist writes in Tehilim/ Psalms, גַּם כִּי־אֵלֵךְ בְּגֵיא צַלְמָוֶת לֹא־אִירָא רָע כִּי־אַתָּה עִמָּדִי. Translation: Though I walk through a valley of deepest darkness, I fear no harm, for You are with me. It's important to note that there is no assurance that no harm will occur. Instead, the assurance is that we will not be alone, even in the darkest periods. As we mourn the tragic passing of these holy souls, let us remember this powerful message.
Have a Peaceful Shabbos,
Rabbi Yaakov Fisch
(Please note, this message was written before it was discovered that the body of Shiri Bibas was not returned)
Friday, March 21, 2025
A most important 20 Year Anniversary
Our shul just marked a most extraordinary milestone this week on March 13, 2025. While this date does not appear to have any extra significance, it was the 20th anniversary of our Daf Yomi class at Etz Chaim Synagogue. On March 13, 2005, I began (my first year here in my previous position as Youth Rabbi) to deliver the daily class on the timeless wisdom in the Talmud.
The idea for this class germinated in conversation with Robbie Roth of blessed memory. Robbie was a leader and visionary in our community. (Although he passed away in 2010, the dividends of his dedication are still felt in many ways, most notable as he was the Founder and President of Torah Academy.) Robbie and I were part of a group from Jacksonville that traveled up to Continental Airlines Arena in New Jersey on March 1, 2005 (now called the Meadowlands Arena) for the Siyum Hashas of the Daf Yomi. The Siyum Hashas is the great celebration to mark the conclusion of studying the entire Talmud Bavli. During the festive music and dancing, the arena was filled with palpable energy with the excitement of Torah Study. Over the loud music, I heard Robbie's voice asking me if I would commit to teaching the Daf Yomi class, and I excitedly responded in the affirmative.
For the last 20 years, men in our community have gathered for seven days a week during the pre-dawn hours to study this ancient wisdom. Over the years, I have been inspired by the many people who showed up to listen to me as I taught the hallowed passages that hydrate our thirsting souls.
I am grateful to Robbie Roth and David Mizrahi of blessed memory for being part of the inaugural group. I have fond memories of Noberto Voloschin of blessed memory (passed away in 2015). Noberto did not ever study Talmud until the age of 80. He joined the year he turned 80 and never missed a day until his passing at the age of 84. In those four years, he managed to study over half of the entire Talmud.
In our current group, I would like to pay tribute to Meir Cohen, who has been studying daily with us since 2007 and prepared so many special Siyumim over the years. I am also grateful to Rabbi Green, who now teaches the class on the weekends. The participants' wives and children deserve due recognition for their support and sacrifice as their husbands/fathers attended this early morning class.
I am reflecting on the privilege of being able to deliver the class for 20 years. It has been a great run, and with the help of G-d, I look forward to many more years of connecting with community members to study this ancient wisdom. The more one studies, the more one realizes how much more there is to study and learn. The statement from the Talmud in Bava Kamma 92 reminds us, "When we were younger, we were considered to be men; now that we are older, we are considered to be children."
I will be forever grateful for the opportunity to teach this class in our community!
Have a Peaceful Shabbos,
Rabbi Yaakov Fisch
Thursday, March 13, 2025
The Naming of Purim
The name of the upcoming chag of Purim usually triggers memories of joy and happiness. People gather to read the Megillah, give gifts to the needy, send food packages to one another, and have a Purim feast with family or friends. The name of the day, Purim requires some understanding as it it is does not appear to be directly related to any of the four mitzvos of the day. The name Purim was selected as it states in the Megila for the following reason:
עַל־כֵּן קָרְאוּ לַיָּמִים הָאֵלֶּה פוּרִים עַל־שֵׁם
הַפּוּר עַל־כֵּן עַל־כׇּל־דִּבְרֵי הָאִגֶּרֶת הַזֹּאת וּמָה־רָאוּ עַל־כָּכָה וּמָה הִגִּיעַ אֲלֵיהֶם:
“For that reason these days were named Purim, after pur.
In view, then, of all the instructions in the said letter and of what they had experienced in that matter and what had befallen them”.
In other words Purim was selected because of the lots that Haman drew is referred to as a “Pur.” The selection of the name of the Chag based on the “Pur” seems a little bizarre as there other compelling factors in the Purim story as how the Jews survived to see another day from the genocidal plot that was hatched by Haman.
The Gaon of Vilna shares a powerful insight on this issue. He explains that the crux of the miracle was despite the well-laid plans of Haman, who carefully choreographed the genocide of the Jews down to the day it was supposed to commence, there was the hidden hand of G-d to upend this scheme. The larger message was that despite all the normal plans and preparations for our demise, the eternity of the Jewish People prevails.
Mordechai and Esther instructed us to amplify this message of the enduring and unbroken Jewish spirit by celebrating this day every year. As we celebrate this special day, let us be mindful to reflect on our destiny as a people above any “Pur.”
Have a Freilechen Purim and a Peaceful Shabbos,
Rabbi Yaakov Fisch
Friday, March 7, 2025
Why, me?
Why me? Why, G-d, is this happening to me? These words are rarely, if ever, uttered when something amazing happens to an individual! For example, if someone gets a great promotion at work with an increased salary or gets married to a most special person, are these words uttered?
The expression of "Why me?" or "Why is this happening to me" are reserved for what we perceive as cruel fate. Why do I have to deal with this particular hardship or painful experience? There are macro events on the global stage and micro events in our daily lives that cause undue stress. It is precisely at these moments that we may ponder the unfairness of our fate in life. Can we be honest with ourselves and recall if we had similar thoughts of "Why, me" during a truly wonderful moment in our lives?
Perhaps subconsciously, I think we expect perfection in virtually all areas of life. When we receive blessings and good fortune, we attribute that to our hard work or exceptional talent. When things do not unfold that way, we are disappointed with G-d and others for letting us down. The disappointment leads to us living an existence devoid of happiness and joy. So many of us barely exist as we lament the terrible fortune and raw luck that life has thrown our way.
The month of Adar and the Purim story can teach us much about attaining Simcha (happiness) in difficult situations. Our rabbis have taught us to increase our joy once Adar is here. So what is it about Adar and Purim that should trigger happy thoughts? After all, other miraculous events occurred in different months that don't call for happiness.
The story of Purim is unique in the biblical context as it's the only book that doesn't mention the name of G-d. There was immense darkness during that era as a genocidal plot to exterminate Jews was hatched and nearly carried out. The heroes of the story, Mordechai and Esther, rose to the occasion at the right moments and demonstrated faith and bravery on behalf of their people. The Megila records that after the evil decree was averted, the Jews of that era experienced Simcha. On a superficial level, it means that they were happy and relieved that they lived to tell the tale. On a deeper level, the Simcha they experienced was internalizing this idea that the blessings and challenges in our lives are part of our life's journey and greater destiny. There were various critical moments in the Purim story that Mordechai and Esther could have easily stated, “Why, me?” Truly great people do not ask those questions, nor does it deprive them of simcha during difficult times. Especially in dark moments, we must realize that we are not the victims of cruel fate. If there is even one lesson to learn from the Purim story, I suggest that we remember that true Simcha does not mean having a pain-free life. True Simcha is a recognition that everything that occurs, good and otherwise, is there as tools to ultimately enhance our journey in life and bring us closer to our tikkun and destiny.
Have a Peaceful Shabbos,
Rabbi Yaakov Fisch
Friday, February 28, 2025
Donor Fatigue
As the Jewish Community grows locally and worldwide, it needs more funding to support a robust infrastructure for all the resources in our Kehila. The need for funding inevitably leads to more fundraisers both locally and globally. With the vast proliferation of smartphones and social media, fundraising campaigns around the world can be in your daily feeds and status updates.
The Jewish Community is genuinely outstanding in its philanthropy and charitable giving. According to recent studies, American Jews donated an average of around $10,588 per household to charitable causes in 2022 (most recent available data). Jewish households generally give significantly more than non-Jewish households, with the average gift size over $2,500 higher. Following October 7th, American Jews donated a significant amount to Israeli charities, with Jewish federations across North America raising over $850 million for emergency relief campaigns focused on Israel.
With all this tremendous generous giving comes a certain amount of fatigue. People are overwhelmed by the seemingly endless solicitations from organizations and causes that they might even value. There is a certain feeling of "here, we go again" whenever we hear about the next fundraiser. There are murmurings of "I am getting hit up again" and other phrases that probably cannot be mentioned in this column.
There is a fascinating insight from this week's parsha that can offer a new perspective and opportunity for us to reframe the notion of giving particularly to communal causes. The context of this episode is that the Jewish People were charged with contributing to the first Capital Campaign in our history. G-d tells Moshe to instruct the people to contribute much of their resources for the construction of our first central house of worship, known as the Mishkan. The Mishkan was also known as the Tabernacle, and people contributed their precious metals, delicate fabrics, and specialty wood for this important communal project. It is striking that the actual language recorded in the Torah in the charge that G-d gave to Moshe was וְיִקְחוּ־לִי תְּרוּמָה. This is translated as "they shall take for Me a contribution." The language appears incorrect as people were asked to GIVE and it is being recorded and being given the opportunity to RECEIVE.
The Rabbis teach us that, in fact, the language could not be more precise. The reality is that when someone contributes to a worthy cause, he receives something more significant in return. The person is receiving the satisfaction of knowing that he belongs to something much bigger and more meaningful than himself. The Talmud records the story of an antagonist who challenges Rabbi Akiva by asking if G-d loves the poor, why did He not just provide them directly with sustenance? The Sage responded that, of course, G-d could have provided (I am paraphrasing here) all the shuls, schools, kollelim, important causes in Israel, etc, with a fully funded budget that would not have any deficits and would never need to fundraise. However, there is one significant downside to that paradigm. We would not be allowed to give and receive merit. It is for precisely for that reason that the Torah states וְיִקְחוּ־לִי תְּרוּמָה or you shall RECEIVE for Me a contribution. A small number of people who contribute are in the habit of saying to the person who solicits them, "Thank you for the opportunity." In this fleeting world that we find ourselves in, it is genuinely a merit to be able to contribute to a worthy cause. The next time someone solicits us for a worthy cause, it would be appropriate to keep this in mind.
Have a Peaceful Shabbos,
Rabbi Yaakov Fisch
Friday, February 14, 2025
Disruptor In Chief
The notion of a disruption does not usually have positive associations. Disruptors generally cause disruptions and, for the most part, require some subsequent correction or tidying up. Recently, I was looking at someone's LinkedIn profile, and he listed "disruptor" as one of his positive qualities. This got me thinking as to why someone should be proud to be a disrupter. I looked into the issue and found that a disruptor can be positive if the individual actively challenges the status quo, questions traditional methods, and seeks to implement innovative solutions or approaches. Many innovative products in society are only here because some individuals are willing to be disruptors.
As we are less than one month into the second Trump Administration, there is a vast gulf of opinions on whether this presidency is the greatest in history (let's redo Mount Rushmore) or if this is the biggest failure. There is one quality that all fans or foes would agree on, and that is that President Donald Trump is a disruptor. The disruptions have set up a dizzying few weeks of discussions on everything from buying Greenland to annexing Canada as the fifty-first state. (It's hard to imagine Tim Horton's coffee being an American product).
The disruptor-in-chief took things to a new level with his bombshell announcement on Gaza. Up until recently, if anyone in Israel or elsewhere suggested even the voluntary emigration of Palestinians from Gaza, that would be considered absurd. I can't speak for others, but I'm not sure how many thought this proposal would ever come from the Whitehouse. While I am not a political pundit, and this is not a political op-ed, certain issues are bigger than politics, and in my mind, this certainly qualifies. While it is too early to tell if this idea is realistic or very distant from reality, the mere proposal has already changed the entire conversation. The focus of the conversation has become why neighboring Arab countries are not doing enough to help the Palestinians. Indeed, King Abdullah from Jordan felt compelled to announce this week on his visit to the White House that he was allowing 2000 children from Gaza into Jordan.
This proposal (like it or hate it) represents fresh outside the box thinking. I have been reflecting that we can benefit from applying this fresh outside the box thinking to other areas of life. There are many areas of bottleneck in our personal, communal and professional lives that might benefit from a new perspective that has not been seriously considered. In our journey of life every once in a while, a little disruption may be a good thing.
Have a Peaceful Shabbos,
Rabbi Yaakov Fisch
Friday, February 7, 2025
The Price of Eggs
Egg prices are rising again. It seems surreal and borderline unbelievable how expensive the most basic staple of our diet has become. Some restaurants have begun charging a 50-cent surcharge for any egg one orders. In 2019 which seems like decades ago, a dozen eggs were less than $1.50. In the enlightened era of 2025, it is not uncommon to see eggs being sold for over $5.00 per dozen. This dramatic rise is just one example of why food prices, in particular, and the cost of goods in general, have skyrocketed recently. As the essential cost of goods and services continues to increase, people's salaries are not nearly keeping up at the same pace.
The anxiety people have associated with Parnassah, or their material livelihood, is not a new issue and will continue to be ongoing until the end of time. Indeed, the prevalent Talmudic view is that even during the Messianic Era, humanity will continue to struggle with poverty and the challenge of bringing home enough funds to afford some food on the table. The Talmud famously says that "providing a person's food is as difficult as splitting the Red Sea." On a superficial level of understanding, this text is somewhat discouraging. After all, it is quite difficult for the sea to split. If earning a basic livelihood is equivalent to splitting the sea, then we are in serious trouble!
I heard a fascinating insight on this Talmudic passage some time ago that provides me with a much better understanding. If one recalls the story of the immediate prelude of the splitting of the sea in this week's parsha, the Jewish people had their backs to the sea while the mighty Egyptian army aggressively pursued them. It appeared to be an imminent bloodbath of the nascent nation at the hands of the mighty Egyptian empire. As a people of faith, they cried to God for salvation. The people were praying for a miracle akin to a "David vs. Goliath" moment in which a vastly under-armed underdog defeats the favored heavyweight. They were not praying or hoping for the sea to split from behind their backs and open up a passage of dry land amidst the raging waters. The most dramatic miracle of the ages was equally unexpected in how it occurred. It could have only happened from the ultimate "Redeemer of Israel," who, in today's terms, is the ultimate in an "outside the box" manner and delivers unexpected results. The least likely possibility of the sea splitting behind them was orchestrated by the Redeemer of Israel.
Similarly, in our pursuit of our daily livelihood, we often think that our breakthrough will come if a specific sequence of events were to occur. We must keep in mind that the ultimate Sustainer and Provider will deliver the results many times from the least expected source. Until that time comes, let's take a deep breath about the prices of eggs.
Have a Peaceful Shabbos,
Rabbi Yakov Fisch
Friday, January 31, 2025
The Obligation to Remember
The world observed the eightieth anniversary of the liberation of the, horrific concentration camps in Auschwitz-Birkenau. It was January 27, 1945, when the Red Army entered those death camps and finally ended that phase in arguably the greatest calamity to befall the Jewish People in over two thousand years.
There were several backstories to the anniversary and commemoration this week. The most widely discussed story was the threat by Polish officials to have the Prime Minister of Israel arrested if he traveled to Poland for the event. The official stated reason for this absurdity was that the so-called International Criminal Court has indicted the PM for war crimes, and he is subject to arrest in any country that upholds the ICC ruling, the dubious charges notwithstanding.
The aspect of the event that caught my attention was another element that I believe is not sufficiently discussed. 56 Holocaust survivors traveled to attend the ceremonies in Poland. Five years ago, at the seventy-fifth anniversary, over two hundred survivors participated in the event. The uncomfortable truth that is staring us in the face is that we are rapidly approaching the day in which we will inhabit a world with NO LIVING HOLOCAUST SURVIVORS LEFT. Let that sink in. The youngest members of the Auschwitz survivors are approaching 90 years old, and many participants from Monday believe the 80th anniversary would be the last one with a notable number of survivors in attendance.
There cannot be any substitute for seeing a living and breathing survivor who was physically present in those terrible times to share their memories. A few years ago, here in Jacksonville, when our shul had the privilege of hosting the community-wide Yom Hashoah program, we struggled to find six living survivors who were well enough to attend the event and light the six large memorial candles.
The Torah teaches us that we have an obligation of Zachor. This mitzvah is to remember what the evil Amaleik or any of its biological or ideological descendants did to the Jewish People. I have wondered why having a mitzvah is necessary for such a basic attitude of remembering evil. In recent years, I have come to understand that as time goes on, the Mitzvah of Zachor might not seem so obvious. A political party in Germany is currently campaigning "to move beyond the guilt from the past." Ironically, that is in Germany, which has turned out to be one of the world's strongest supporters of Israel since October 7. For most of the rest of the world, the events of October 7, the greatest massacre of the Jews, have reminded us that the evils of Jew hatred are not yet in the rearview mirror of history. With the day of no living Holocaust survivors just around the corner, the obligation and responsibility of Zachor becomes even stronger.
Have a Peaceful Shabbos,
Rabbi Yaakov Fisch
Friday, January 24, 2025
Presidential Inauguration
Much of the country was fixated this week on the Presidential Inauguration. Regardless of anyone's political leanings, this event is important and something to be grateful for. Witnessing the peaceful transfer of power is a privilege that much of the world does not have, and we should not take that for granted. As President Trump takes office for another four years, we offer our steadfast prayers that he and his administration successfully bring peace and prosperity to America and the world.
As Jewish Americans, we are particularly concerned about the plight of the hostages who were abducted in Israel and are hopeful that the new administration will continue its advocacy and efforts in bringing all the remaining hostages home in a way that does not jeopardize the security interests of Israel.
Rabbi Ari Berman, the President of Yeshiva University, delivered eloquent remarks as an invocation at the Presidential Inauguration. He said, "Prophet Jeremiah walked the streets of Jerusalem and blessed its inhabitants with the words: 'Blessed is the one who trusts in G-d.' Thousands of years later, this great nation which adopted these words as its motto: 'In G-d we trust,' stands at a moment of historic opportunity. Our merciful Father, help us rise to meet this moment. Bless President Donald J. Trump and Vice President JD Vance with the strength and courage to choose the right and good. Unite us around our foundational biblical values of life and liberty, service and sacrifice, and especially of faith and morality.
He added: "Guide our schools and college campuses, which have been experiencing such unrest, to inspire the next generation to pair progress with purpose, knowledge with wisdom, and truth with virtue."
Rabbi Berman also prayed for the wellbeing and return of the hostages who are being held by Hamas: "Hear the cry of the hostages, both American and Israeli, whose pain our President so acutely feels. We are so thankful for the three young women who yesterday returned home. And pray that the next four years bring peace to Israel and throughout the Middle East."
As much as there is optimism with the incoming administration, a passage from the liturgy on the High Holidays comes to mind now. The passage of “הממליך מלכים ולו המלובה.” This is translated as "He who anoints Kings but retains the Kingdom." G-d empowers specific individuals to become Kings, Presidents, and Prime Ministers, but ultimately, He is the one who raises the fallen and humbles the mighty. Presidents come and go every few years, and our ultimate allegiance is to the Eternal One, who appoints mere mortals to a few fleeting moments of power in this temporary world.
Have a Peaceful Shabbos,
Rabbi Yaakov Fisch
Thursday, January 23, 2025
Mixed Emotions
Certain moments in life call for us to hold multiple emotions simultaneously. In reality, there is not any day that is entirely perfect or completely painful. Joyous days may have some stressful moments, and sad ones may have happy moments. There are those moments in life that elicit intense joy and intense sadness at the same time. I feel that we, collectively, as the Jewish People, are currently experiencing those contradictory reactions. As the hostage deal is expected to start within the next few days, there is intense joy in knowing that the hostages will be reunited with their families. It is unimaginable to contemplate the horrific suffering that the hostages have been experiencing for the last 15 months. At the same time, it is with intense sadness to witness thousands of terrorists being released, including hundreds who have murdered innocent civilians. It is not a stretch of the imagination to contemplate them returning to their violent behaviors. Many are decrying this deal as a surrender to terror and a severe liability for the future security interests of Israel. Additionally, this deal appears to leave many hostages behind for an unknown and unconfirmed second phase. Many are celebrating the impending return of the hostages from the hell that they have experienced in Gaza. I have heard many conversations about whether this is a good or terrible deal.
I am not even sure I am qualified to have an opinion on such a delicate and sensitive issue. The statement, "What would you do if it was your kids in Gaza," rings in my ears and gives me no rest. I have long been troubled by the words of our Rabbis who stated in the Tractate of Gittin, "that one may not redeem captives for more they are worth, because of Tikkun Olam." The Talmud explains that it is because that will incentivize bandits and terrorists to keep on abducting Jews as they know we will never leave anyone behind. The troubling part of that statement is how anyone can assess "more than they worth" as who can put a value on human life and, let alone many human lives. Nonetheless, this statement has caused some controversial outcomes over history, with emotions running high on all sides. As much as everyone wants to see the hostages back safely, it is beyond painful to have murdering terrorists freed and starting to plan their next vicious act of terror.
From all the different perspectives and commentary I have read, the comments of David Friedman, former American Ambassador to Israel, resonated most with me. Friedman said, "I respect different points of view. What I respect far less is the certainty among some well-meaning folks that this is a huge mistake," he said. "It may turn out to be a mistake, it may turn out to be exactly the right move. But, either way, let's approach this with the humility, analysis, respect, and compassion that such an extraordinarily difficult problem requires."
That was well said, Ambassador Friedman. In the meantime, let us continue to pray for divine handholding in these perilous times.
Wishing you a Peaceful Shabbos,
Rabbi Yaakov Fisch
Friday, January 10, 2025
Just Do It
The beginning of the secular New Year is an opportunity for people to undertake resolutions or commitments. It can be an overwhelming endeavor, as we might not know where to begin the process. There are so many areas where one can improve, and just contemplating bringing positive change is daunting. As always, profound lessons from the Torah are insightful on this topic.
In a somewhat bizarre incident, Yosef brings his two sons, Menashe and Ephraim, to his ailing father's bedside for a final parting and for the two young grandchildren to get a blessing from their sage grandfather. Yaakov stuns Yosef when he places his right hand on the second brother, Ephraim, and his left hand on the firstborn son, Menashe. This is met with resistance from Yosef, who not so gently reminds his elderly father that Menashe is the firstborn and thus deserves the right hand placed on him. (This is somewhat ironic considering that Yosef, who was not the firstborn, was considered the preferred son, and now he is taking offense that his firstborn son was not receiving his due honor).
What was it about Yaakov's insistence that Ephraim was the recipient of the preferred bracha? Not only that, but Yaakov designated the gold standard of blessings as "May G-d make you like Ephraim and Menashe."Why was it so important that Ephraim precedes Menashe?
The Nesivos Shalom writes based on a famous verse in Tehillim/Psalms: סור מרע ועשה טוב /Desist from Evil and Perform Good. This is the formula that King David taught us toward the path of character development and improvement. First and foremost, it is important to desist from wrongdoing and only then to engage in mitzvah or good deeds. The only problem with that approach is that a person can always be busy with desisting wrongdoing and never get to perform one mitzvah or good deed -- for who can actually say that I have no baggage left in the closet and now I am free to pursue mitzvahs and good deeds?
One of the best ways to desist from wrongdoing is just to do a mitzvah or good deed. This is illustrated by Menashe and Ephraim's story. In Parshas Mikeitz, the reason why Yosef named his two sons Menashe and Ephraim is stated. His first son was named Menashe for, as he put it, " God has made me forget the toil." In essence, that is the value of desist from wrongdoing. His second son was named Ephraim for as he put it "G-d made me fruitful in the land of my affliction". In essence, this is the value of Asei Tov /Doing a Mitzvah or good deed.
That was Yaakov's deeper message in designating his two grandsons. Although in an ideal world, it is important to first get away from wrongdoing, it is imperative that one just perform a mitzvah or a good deed as activation energy. Sometimes, it is precisely one small positive action that can be a catalyst for much greater things to come.
Have a Peaceful Shabbos,
Rabbi Yaakov Fisch
Friday, January 3, 2025
Finding Light in the Darkness
It is not as easy to make the journey to Israel from America these days. As most airlines have stopped flying to and from Israel because of the war, one has to undertake a degree of creativity in planning an itinerary. I flew from Jacksonville to Miami to Dubai to Tel Aviv to arrive for my grandson's Bris in Jerusalem. It was a whirlwind, and I could not be more grateful to be in the Capital of our ancestral homeland to observe how this young infant, representing the newest link in the chain of thousands of years of Jewish tradition, would enter the eternal covenant. As I began the journey back to my current residence in Jacksonville, I found myself at the Dubai International Airport for an extended layover on the first night of Chanukah. I had packed candles in my carry-on and was on a mission to find a place to light the Chanukah candles. I did not pack a lighter or matches as I did not want to cause an international incident by having that contraband in my possession.
My initial plan was to go to the Duty-Free, buy a carton of cigarettes, and ask them to throw in a lighter. I have never bought a pack of cigarettes in my life, but if this gave me a lighter to be used for lighting the candles, I would break my nearly five-decade tradition of not owning cigarettes. After learning that the Duty-Free did not have any lighters or matches to distribute with cigarettes, I needed to resort to Plan B. I discovered Plan B when I walked by the smoker's lounge and saw people smoking. I braved the cloud of smoke in the lounge and asked someone if I could use his lighter, and he graciously gave me his lighter. I took out my candles and set them up in the smoker's lounge. I stood up and recited the blessings before lighting the first candle for Chanukah.
The person in charge of the lounge asked me what I was doing, and in a matter of fact manner, I responded that I was lighting Chanukah candles. He wished me a Happy Chanukah and even offered to get me a beverage of choice! I stayed there until the candles went out, and I reflected on the most interesting turn of events.
In a larger sense, I was really taking the message of Chanukah to a new level. A primary message of Chanukah is to bring the light into an increasingly dark world. The world is dark and cold in many ways, and we become increasingly anxious and frustrated with the onset of more news reflecting pain and suffering. While we cannot do everything to eliminate the darkness, we are empowered to light a candle. Lighting a candle or lamp during Chanukah represents the larger message of bringing the light of G-d into our mundane lives. Every time we undertake a Mitzvah we are essentially continuing to bring this light into the darkness. While we can question what our efforts of lighting these candles can accomplish, I am reminded of the saying, "There is not enough darkness in all the world to put out the light of even one small candle.” That lesson was reinforced to me this year at Dubai International Airport.
Have a Peaceful Shabbos,
Rabbi Yaakov Fisch
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